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I’m Andréa A. Michel, and I've created a safe, healing space for men and women, just like you, to come just as you are!
A while ago, I decided to forgive someone and they NEVER apologized to me. What’s interesting is that I didn’t even know that I held on to unforgiveness towards this person because they’ve never done anything to me DIRECTLY.
Their decisions indirectly impacted me because they caused severe pain to someone whom I love, honor, and cherish deeply.
The more I learned about the actions of this person, the more I began to dislike them, teetering on the thin line between dislike and disdain.
So as I was taking a moral inventory of my life, contemplating where I am spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically, I was surprised to learn that I was holding on to unforgiveness towards this person.
At first, I tried to deny it and say that “I just don’t have a good relationship with this person” and “we just don’t have good chemistry.” But the truth…oh the truth, can be both hurtful and liberating at the same time.
When I realized this, unforgiveness, I sat with it for a few days…close to a week, actually, and I asked myself what I wanted to do with it:
1) Should I confront this person and explain to them how I feel?
2) Do I want to hold on to this because it’s “easy” and “comfortable” AND no one has to know?
3) Do I want to FORGIVE because the burden of carrying this information is too heavy for me?
Even though this person doesn’t have a clue as to the impact they’ve had on me because of how they’ve treated my loved one, I decided to forgive.
I chose forgiveness for myself. Holding on to something so heavy will only prevent me from reaching my highest potential and living my life in alignment with my Highest Self.
I am my number one priority and every decision I make always has my BEST interest in spirit, mind, heart, and body. I can only serve when I serve myself fully.
Forgiveness is ALWAYS for the individual who chooses to forgive. The person whom I’ve forgiven will probably NEVER know that I felt this way about them and you know what, it’s really not that important.
What is important is that I’m living in alignment with my Creator and that requires “PURITY.”
And this is the power of healing your inner child and unhealed trauma!
Introducing: Healing In The Shadow™️ Membership
Healing In The Shadow™️ (H.I.T.S.) is not JUST a fancy name of my powerful healing membership but it's where I received my healing.
In the shadow, is where I came face to face with my:
- Jealousy
- Envy
- Inadequacies
- Pride
- Loneliness
- Low self-worth
- Insecurities
- Low self-esteem
- Selfishness
- Abandonment
- Resentment
- Bitterness
Basically, I came face to face with WHO I had BECOME in the shadow. I saw myself. And it was in seeing me, fully, that caused me to make a decision: do I stay the same? Or, do I change? I decided to change and that’s when the game changed!
Your shadow exists... it exists for everyone. Stop seeing your shadow as something that has to be destroyed, eliminated, or forgiven...
Your shadow is not bad or sinful, your shadow needs to be integrated with your light… you need to shine your light on it, not keep it hidden. Remember, the darkness doesn’t argue with the light.
You cannot deal with what you won’t acknowledge. Be willing to step into your shadow because there is “HEALING IN THE SHADOW
The H.I.T.S. membership is currently closed but you can join the waitlist to be notified when it opens again.
